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07 Apr, 2010

Parenting – Don’t Let A Tot Manipulate You

Posted by: Aya Nagase In: General

Many parents find it controlling their children a very stressful and difficult job, and most of them are really at a loss of what to do. This is especially true for parents who have their first child, as there has been no prior experience to fall back onto. This short article will address the most commonly encountered problem associated with child tantrums.

The thing to realize is that getting bad behavior under control is not as hard as you think, and there are a few simple things to keep in mind to start off on the right foot with your kids.

I’m sure that you’ve read up by now, in parenting magazines and books, that when your child reaches the toddler’s age of 18 months, he or she can be quite a handful. They start testing their limits and will truly test your patience by throwing tantrums and the like. You have to understand that this is normal, so don’t get to worked up by what your toddler does.

The magic formula to addressing these behavior challenges is to stand your own ground and always be firm . They are going to attempt to push your buttons to find out just how much they can get away with simply because it’s all part of their learning process and to know what’s correct and also what’s bad, and if you really mean what you say. So be unwavering and unaffected, this will show them that you really mean business and “no” really means “no”.

One solution of getting the little ones to do something, is to give them alternatives and options. I’m sure that you’ve tried to put a sweater on your baby girl at one point and she absolutely refuses for whatever reason. Instead of forcing her to wear it, ask her which colored sweater she prefers the most, give her some choices. Most of the time, this technique works as kids just want to be like adults, and have some freedom to choose what they want.

So what happens when your child crosses the line? You’ve given her multiple warnings but she still continues to do what she’s not supposed to. Should you give her a smack, or not? What’s the best thing to do? If you’ve already told her not to climb on the couch but she continues to do so, just pick her up and put her in her room or play pen and isolate her for a while.

Now there will be tantrums at this point and the best course of action here is ignorance. After a while she will realize that screaming and crying leads no where and she will get tired and stop. There is no need to smack your children in order to discipline them.

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